Family Constellations explore sub conscious drivers and patterns in our ancestry, resolving blocks and finding resolution by unwinding deep tensions, experiencing a visceral forgiveness and understanding that results in profound transformation.
” it’s like ‘cranio-sacral’ treatment for the family system.”

UK trained in Systemic and Somatic Constellations since 2009 with Albrecht Mahr, Dr Ursula Franke, Jan Jacob Stan (who all trained with Bert Hellinger) as well as Vivian Broughton and Sarasi Rogers.
She works 1:1 and in groups plus introduction workshops, festivals & retreat

Feedback from clients
 it’s a very useful tool to get perspective and a sense of other parties dynamics. Regarding Victoria, they say that she is very grounded in her approach, genuinely inclusive, patient and with a keen perception, which helps reveal the layers of subtle information.

“Initially I loved working with the large group and the traditional way of having the whole family members represented but as my work deepened I find working one to one more satisfying. Working with just the client and the issue and having them represent all influences via felts. This way the understanding and body healing is all happening within the client and their field. This is just my preferred way of working on individual constellations.“

“Victoria’s work is life changing. She combines a unique gift for holding a space of clarity and focus with surrendering completely to the flow. Victoria keeps you somatically engaged and away from story, and this is where the magic happens. We got straight to the (very unexpected) root of the issue and the amount of release and resolution from one session was astounding. I cannot recommend this work highly enough. Everyone could benefit from this.”
Akhilanda Ananda, Devon, UK

“I just wanted to thank you for the constellation session you ran the other day with us. This was my first experience of constellation and I was impressed. It was a full, rich, deep morning which brought clarity, insight, understanding and, above all, a sense of certainty that had to do with uniting body, brain and heart. It took the vision and the reality of the event we’re organising several steps forward in a remarkably short time. Great work! Thanks.” Sue Charman, Wood Sisters Director & Event organiser – UK

“Victoria holds a warm and safe space. She seems navigate the unknown effortlessly, giving me plenty of room to follow my own process.”   P.J. Sunshine Coast, Australia        More reviews – click on link

“To be held in Victoria Whelan’s nurturing embrace and to receive her wisdom with an open heart…. is to know that everything is going to be okay. I found the process subtle, yet powerful. A journey that takes you right to the core of the wound, all the while feeling her deep holding and a sense of comfort & safety. From this space, she intuitively delivers powerful reflections that serve as an unlocking – opening your awareness to the link between core wounds and inhibiting behaviour patterns both within yourself and for those that impact your experience. The gift you receive is clarity & understanding. Victoria has an innate ability to lead you to a place where surrender feels easeful and reclaiming your power more available than ever before. The ability to heal ancestral trauma is available through this work. Thank you Victoria for the magic you weave.” Cine Holland, Byron Bay, Australia

My personal experience with this work has also been very profound and made me want to train and becoming a facilitator.
This was significant in its own right as I’ve been doing therapy and personal growth processes since the mid 80s and find one so profound that I wanted to train it was truly wonderful.
I initially went to a weekend with the gorgeous Sarasi Rogers on Dartmoor, which I can’t recommend enough.
I remember watching the people representing my family imembers, it was almost as if we were having a group intuition experience and it was completely spot on.
This group intuition called the knowing field reminded me of what we do as musicians when we jam and we’re listening for the Unknown. So it felt familiar to start with.

These beautiful photos were taken at Myall Lakes, NSW without a filter – just magic!

Then on my next visit to Australia to visit my family, after doing probably three of these weekends with Sarasi – I remember my sister-in-law saying to me what have you done and I wasn’t sure what she meant. But she was acknowledging that I wasn’t buying into the same games that I normally do and I wasn’t taking the well rehearsed bait that my brothers would playfully leave for me.
It was wonderful to have that feedback without asking for it that acknowledged the profound change this working provide.

I feel like when you can step into the parts of your family system that weren’t so great, even perpetrators you get a sense that life isn’t black-and-white and their actions came from their own trauma, Then you began to understand on a visceral level and that understanding can lead to compassion and then if you’re lucky forgiveness. Not an impose forgiveness but one that you can feel deeply in your body being. Thats where the real change happens!